Negative effect of On Child due to /emotional incest /surrogate spouse equation

•Feeling responsible for only one parent’s feelings

•Constant “forced” distance and conflict with the other parent

•Harmful concealed guilt due to self-alienation from other parent

•Age – inappropriate ,spouse-like responsibilities

•Loss of quality childhood/teenage life

•Difficulty making and sustaining friendships

•Isolation from other friends

•Feelings of guilt & unworthiness

•Anxiety/Depression

•Poor self-esteem in adult life

•Poor performance on profession/ society

•Poor social decisions and Perfectionism

•Maladaptive  marital life and high rate of broken marriages in later life